Timothy Michael Painter

Timothy Michael Painter transitioned peacefully into the hands of God on June 13, 2017 in the care of BJC Hospice in St. Louis. Tim’s last days were spent peacefully and filled with love in the company of family members and dear friends.

Tim was born in Sioux City, Iowa on July 18, 1961, but spent the majority of his life in St. Louis, Missouri. He is preceded in death by his father Harold Roy Painter and his brother Todd Mark Painter.

Tim is survived by many loving relatives and friends. He leaves behind and will be forever missed by his partner of nearly 22 years Robert Schoening, his mother Sandra Bousquet-Gamble and her husband Tom Gamble, his aunt Mary Jo Carney and her partner Carol Abernathy, and his “second Mom” Mary Ann Mannia. He will also be missed by many cousins, nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews, other relatives, and close friends.

Tim was a kind, generous, and loving soul whose compassion and caring influenced all who knew him. His quick wit and humorous demeanor enriched the lives of those around him, and his caring and selflessness are enduring characteristics that will live in the hearts and minds of those he left behind. Tim faced numerous physical challenges in life that he confronted with a strength, courage, and dignity that was truly inspirational.

Tim’s many passions included his dear family and friends, his various forms of artistic expression, his desire for equality and understanding for everyone, his dogs, and his love of life. Tim had numerous creative talents and his paintings, jewelry, and other artistic endeavors will be cherished reminders of him.

We will miss Tim terribly, but he will be forever in our hearts. And though our lives will never be the same, Heaven is surely a more beautiful and happy place with his presence.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on July 7, 2017 at 10:30 am with a reception to follow.
Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church
500 Fairview Avenue, Brentwood, CA 94513

A Celebration of Life will be held from 12:00 to 3:00 pm on July 15, 2017 in St. Louis.
Just John, 4112 Manchester Avenue, St. Louis, MO 63110.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to any of the following:

St. Louis Effort for Aids
http://stlefa.org/

Pets Are Wonderful People (PAWS)
http://www.stlefa.org/PAWS

The Foundation for Barnes-Jewish Hospital
https://www.barnesjewish.org/Giving

11 Comments

  1. Gayle and Rene Ely on June 20, 2017 at 11:46 am

    Our hearts are saddened at this news. Bob and family are in our thoughts and prayers.



  2. John Mykrantz on June 22, 2017 at 10:12 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We hope your memories of Tim will provide some solace in this difficult time.



  3. Bill Pollock on June 22, 2017 at 12:39 pm

    Bob and family my thoughts are with you. May you cherish your memories and gather strength going forward.



  4. Victor Halverson on June 22, 2017 at 12:49 pm

    I was very saddened to hear of the passing of Tim. Our thoughts and prayers are with Bob, and Tim’s family.



  5. Walt Kujawa on June 22, 2017 at 7:42 pm

    My sympathy to Bob and Tims family. Tim loves like and spending it with Bob. I remember going to pride with Tim in the Eighties and what a blast he would always have. RIP Tim you will not be forgotten but truly missed



  6. JUNE TAYLOR on June 23, 2017 at 2:21 pm

    Good memories are always the ones that remain vivid and live on.

    You had lots…

    June



  7. Robert G. Hubbard on June 23, 2017 at 3:49 pm

    Tim Painter changed my life profoundly on so many levels and his positive influence on me is still so obvious in so many ways. His joie de vivre and passion for living gave me the strength and confidence to embrace life with an attitude that I am so thankful for. He was my husband and stepfather to my two daughters for 8 years in the late 80’s early 90’s and my time with him was full of so many wonderous adventures. My deepest condolences to his partner Bob, beautiful mother Sandy, aunt Mary Jo and “second mom” Mary Ann. I love you all and thank you for the time with your amazing son, Tim Painter. He will live forever in my heart. Bless you.



  8. Linda Garrett on June 30, 2017 at 10:57 am

    My prayers are with Bob and Tim’s family. I hope that your memories help in this difficult time.



  9. Lois and Frederick McMillan on June 30, 2017 at 3:13 pm

    We are sorry for the lost of a love one. We met Tim though Bob. I (Lois) worked with Bob at the Milk Market office in Lenexa, KS. Tim always had a smile on his face when I would meet up with him at various office events. God bless and may the angels watch over you all.



  10. Cynthia Peterson & Harold Martin on July 3, 2017 at 6:19 pm

    Bob & Tim’s Family;

    Harold and I were both saddened to hear of Tim’s passing. He was always fun to be around. A caring guy who will be missed by all.

    Cynthia & Harold



  11. Tomas Santiago on July 7, 2017 at 10:22 am

    I’m sorry to hear about the loss of a loved one. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



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