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Bennie Crusby

BENNIE CRUSBY [July 24, 1947 – April 11, 2014]

Bennie was born in Bakersfield, CA, the beloved first son of William and Allie Crusby (a Navy Ship Steward and a homemaker). The family later moved to St. Louis.

Both parents and siblings, Loretta, William and Burton transitioned before him.

Left to cherish his memory is a son Benny Cole, a daughter Ramona Woolen; three grandchildren, Benny L. Cole, Danta and Seirda Smith; and three great grands. Surviving siblings are John Jeffries, Monica McFee, Betty Crusby, Debra Gray and their many descendents. And there’s family matriarch Dorine Green and the California Crew.

Bennie attended Vashon High School. Although never married, he enjoyed life to the fullest. He was a dapper dresser, fun loving and charming. Generous to a fault, Bennie would cheerfully give you his last dime. But he’d never forgive a broken promise. Smart and spiritual, he was quick to acknowledge he played the hand he dealt himself.

Speaking of hands, if it’s Spades or Bid Whist, he would likely win. Dominoes…Slam those bones. Fishing…Perfect on a hot summer day. Sports of all sorts…Yes!

When telling a joke or raising a toast, no one could bring it like Bennie. And no one was offended, at least not intentionally.

Family and friends enjoyed his unconditional love and returned it tenfold. We miss him already.

So hats off to you, our brave and handsome warrior. And thanks for sharing this classy act called Bennie Crusby’s Life. Nicely done!

MEMORIAL SERVICE: 1-4PM Friday, April 18, 2014

St. Louis Cremation, 2135 Chouteau, STL 63103

To sign the online guestbook: www.stlouiscremation.com

Come as you are…and wear your favorite hat!

16 Comments

  1. Monica McFee on April 14, 2014 at 4:39 pm

    You’ve been there for me, and me for you. Family first and forever. Miss you already. Love, Monica



  2. Tom Lappe on April 15, 2014 at 12:22 pm

    I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times.



  3. Erma Gomillian on April 15, 2014 at 12:40 pm

    Big Benny your with the man upstairs now you left good people behind but your in no pain now little Benny your son is taking over now so close your eyes and enjoy



  4. jason lappe on April 15, 2014 at 12:41 pm

    thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family in this time of sorrow,please know that all of you will be in our prayers



  5. Brian Bowman on April 15, 2014 at 1:13 pm

    My condolences to Benny Cole and family. Sounds like a fun guy who lived a happy life. Thoughts and prayers to you.



  6. Terry Brown on April 15, 2014 at 1:36 pm

    Benny, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Know that your father is in a better place, and it sounds like he was quite a character.



  7. Carol Hawkins on April 15, 2014 at 1:58 pm

    Benny,
    Your dad sounds like he really enjoyed life. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sorry that we didn’t get to meet him.



  8. Tim & Juile Lappe on April 15, 2014 at 3:48 pm

    Our deepest sympathy go to you and your family. May our thought and prays be with you all during this difficult time.



  9. Benny Cole on April 15, 2014 at 4:58 pm

    Dad i will always love you.You always been there for me.We had some good times together.I miss you already dearly. I really enjoyed and loved you being my father,ain’t nothing in the world could ever take that away from us.I wouldn’t trade that for nothing in this world.Your one and only son BennyII.



  10. Debra Dizer on April 15, 2014 at 6:41 pm

    My prayers are with you and your family. God bless you and your family.



  11. jjoyce brinkley on April 15, 2014 at 8:30 pm

    from the first day I met him he was an awesome guy ,not quiet at all yes you could tell you guys was very close ,I love that about you guys ,he will be missed.god bless



  12. Lisa Dorsey-Harris on April 15, 2014 at 11:26 pm

    Uncle Benny you are another chapter in my life started but unable to complete. I looked forward to us laughing and getting to know one another. One day we will meet and I will hold your hands, look you in the eyes and say “Hi Uncle Benny I’m your niece Lisa and I love you”.



  13. Bonita McFee on April 17, 2014 at 12:53 pm

    I’m fortunate to have grown up under your loving and supportive care. You always had a positive outlook, full of fun and jokes as well as supportive advice. You remained dedicated to your family and we greatly miss your presence and spirit. You are now among the greatness of our other family members who have passed on, give them all a hug for me and we look for you all to continue to watch over us. Love, Bonita.



  14. Janice Oatis on April 17, 2014 at 3:38 pm

    Sorry to hear about your father Benny our prayers go out to you and yours. May God bless and look over you. With love Janice, Keith, and the family.



  15. lue reather morris on April 18, 2014 at 1:09 pm

    I would like say goodbye to a person who was always pleasant@ anytime. A good person that will me missed. My condolences to The Crusby family. .R.I.P. Mr. Crusby



  16. Rick Zach on April 18, 2014 at 11:29 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss Benny. You just have to remember the good times to keep his memory alive. I will pray for you and your family.



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